Plenty of people in this world walk around putting on heirs. They pretend to be so happy with where they are in their life, when in actuality, their actions tell quite a different story. Whether it’s nasty behaviors toward most people they come in contact with for no other reason than the fact that they are miserable inside, or judgmental talk about just about everyone in their lives, the hubris seeps out through every pore until you barely recognize who you’re dealing with anymore. They have themselves convinced they’re living under the guise of honesty, and cannot recognize that their words and actions don’t match their proclamations. I am a firm believer that our behavior is the best reflection of our true character. We can talk a certain way, but if our walk doesn’t match that talk, it falls on deaf ears.
I am, in no way, a perfect human being. I have never claimed to be in my lifetime. I fall short every.single.day. But I know who I am – a child of the King who forgives me for my shortcomings and meets me where I am at. His love is fresh and new for me every day, and I don’t have to every worry about disappointing Him, because His love never fails.
I also know my responsibility as His child – to love Him, and to love others and I love myself. See that last word – myself – it’s bold and underlined for a reason. Often times we leave off this key word. Jesus was asked specifically by the Pharisees what the greatest commandment in the Law was, to which He answered love God, but the second portion of the answer is where we get hung up. Matthew 22:39 says,” 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” First we are charged to love our neighbor – ALL of them – not just our white neighbor, our Christian neighbor, our young neighbor, our cool neighbor, our nice neighbor, our conservative neighbor, our straight neighbor, our non-addict neighbor, our sober neighbor….but ALL OUR NEIBHBORS.
And the next part…here’s the deal-breaker. To love the way God loves, I have to love me first. This isn’t selfish or haughty, it’s just plain fact. If I have issues with me, I can’t love like God loves. If I don’t feel worthy, I can’t love like God loves. If I have issues with forgiveness, or hate, or self-loathing, or identity, or relationships, or bitterness, or self-control, or selfishness…it is impossible to love like God loves. Because God does not struggle with these issues, plain and simple. So until we can lay these issues down at the feet of our Father, we cannot love as we are asked to do, thereby fulfilling the greatest command.
We can walk around thinking we’ve arrived all we want, talking up a good talk, telling all who will listen that we are Christians, but until we’ve laid all down all our junk, we’re nothing more than clanging cymbals in the ears of those around us. God knows we’re not fooling Him.
My prayer is for a time when we all – us and ALL our neighbors – love ourselves and each other enough to step forward in unity. We’ve spent far too much time looking at differences. Far too much wasted time.
Love God ~ Love others as yourself